We Both Must Fade (Mrs. Fithian)

Lilly Martin Spencer, We Both Must Fade (Mrs. Fithian), 1869, oil on canvas, Smithsonian American Art Museum, Museum purchase, 1970.101
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Artwork Details

Title
We Both Must Fade (Mrs. Fithian)
Date
1869
Location
Not on view
Dimensions
7253 34 in. (182.9136.5 cm.)
Credit Line
Museum purchase
Mediums
Mediums Description
oil on canvas
Classifications
Subjects
  • Portrait female — Fithian, Mrs. — full length
  • Allegory — quality — vanity
  • Allegory — life
Object Number
1970.101

Artwork Description

Mrs. Fithian stands before a mirror, admiring the tokens that others have given in praise of her beauty. She wears lace and pearls, and a blue gown that has just been taken from its box. But like the rose in her hand with its falling petals, her beauty will fade, and with it, all the pleasures the world can provide. The extinguished lamps, which darken the parlor to dramatic effect, emphasize the message of the painting. Thomas C. Latto romanticized this subject in a poem:

See! From those priceless jewels in her bower,
The queenly Beauty turns her neck away,
And Eyes that pale not 'neath the diamond's ray,
Muse in their loveliness on one sweet flower—
Whose bloom alas! Has reach'd its fated hour.

Exhibition Label, Smithsonian American Art Museum, 2006